Forgive me, MLP, as I haven't read your entire thread, but in reading this page, I'm wondering if you've read Codependent No More? Even though my H and no one in my family are alcoholics, I still found it really helpful.


Me: 35, H: 37, no kids
Together since 2002, Married since 2007
IDKIILY: 2/2013
MC: 5/2013-6/2014
H stated he was REALLY done: 4/2014
I moved out 7/6/14
H filed end of 8/2014 but still hasn't served me