I think her stalling at sending the no-contact letter is a problem. When is your MC appt?
A week from today. I waffle on it because I do want to stand my ground, but I also see how it comes across as controlling. And if she's not 'there' yet, I fear it may push her away further. But I also wonder if she's lumping the no contact letter and sharing of phone, passwords, etc into 1 package deal. She even mentioned this weekend that she knows I would just look back into past emails looking for something to harass her about. I'd be constantly digging for something.
Do I offer to postpone the sharing until we discuss in MC, but insist on the no contact letter now? Or just wait for next week for all of it?
