Hi GGG(G)(Last G is for Goddess),
So, it's Tuesday, weekend is over and we are back to work and/or regular lives. Tell us, oh Goddess of the Goats, did GUBU ever have his "talk"? Or did he chicken out after seeing how much better you looked in that dress than any of his online chippies? I LOVE that you were so together, looking so good, having fun while he was sitting around in front of the TV looking at the online dating profiles of all the 50+ weirdos who actually responded to the "creepy" sounding profile you told us about that he had posted on his smartphone!

I know exactly what you mean when you talk about the "one-sided" conversations! When I talk to W (not often anymore) it's like the only topics in the world have to do with her or her father and new "mom" (Fathers OW who he ran off with when she was 10 years old). To hear her, they are the greatest minds of the 21st century! AND they "allow" her to be around them. If I talk about the girls or, God forbid, myself, she gets this glazed look in her eyes like "what do I care, let me tell you about ME!". Even her teenage kids see it and you know how teens see themselves as the center of the universe!

GGG(G), he is crazy not to see you for the unique, special person you are. When you are out doing things you enjoy, the other people see you for who you are and enjoy being around you. I remember just past B-day when my W and I were at a party that one of her work friends had. Most of the people there know me and I have always gotten along great with them. At one point my W came up to me and said in this astonished voice "Wow, everyone here really seem to like you" like it was some unbelievable revelation. Or better yet, like "why don't they see you as the jerk I see you as"? It's just proves that you could be the best looking, smartest, most perfect spouse ever and they still will see you as the "bad" one. Like is always said, it's not about us, it's all about them.

So, tell us. Did he ever come out and say what's on his fevered little mind or did he just go back to his rabbit hole to keep baking?