And most importantly, to NOT LORD IT OVER THEM for the rest of your marriage!!!
Although I know this, I do question whether I'd actually be able to follow it should I know details. And I *think* W thinks I would hold it over her.
LOL, I bet if you asked my wife she'd tell you she would've bet $1,000 that I would. I think she's been pretty stunned that I haven't, as I have some real "I've-gotta-be-right" issues.
It was actually easier than I thought. I saw her making effort, I got my "I'm sorry's" and I know that I wasn't blameless in the marriage getting to that point. I think God too had a large hand in healing both of our wounds.
