Igit newbie needs help part 3

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Having a tough day. I have a meeting coming up with my L on thur.to answer summons. W went to a 2hr.women's bible study last night. She called me on way home from it and talked small talk. She was as nice as she has been in a long time the last few days. This morning I took kids to school and came home the house was a mess. I spent a few hours cleaning up. I even made her bed. I am trying something new. Going to do something nice for her everyday for next 30days. Nothing but little things. Not sure what it will do other then at least put some positive thoughts in her mind. I know a D can be very hurtful to both of us. I am not ready to give up. Our 17yr.anniversary is this Saturday. No present but am going to get a card w pictures of our kids. Just a note that says I will always be great full for thus day. Any thoughts on this from vets