Thanks Starsky- I was hoping you'd be one to reply.
It eats me up wanting to know details, but for some reason yesterday it dawned on me that if I'm to keep the road home smooth, it involves me forgiving the past and just moving forward. I think my W's biggest fear is having to divulge all those details and answer all my prying questions. For what? For me to get my answers and then what? I constantly dwell on the details? Wonder if there's more she didn't tell me? What does she get out of it if she tells all, then I bail because I can't handle it?
I'm still conflicted on all of it and far from getting to that point, but just wanted to hear from others who have made it to the other side.
