What to do when an EA involved?

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Hoju, I just went through this exact thing. Often times the people you talk with are more angry than you are. Just remember you have chosen to DB and to stand for your marriage. One particular close friend of mine is very pro marriage he gets so worked up when we talk. I found it is helpful to become angry actually. Go ahead and get angry and release it PRODUCTIVELY. Excersise, do physical labor, go out on a secluded road and yell and scream all you want. Get that anger out, you will feel a LOT better. I actually grabbed a hammer and a dozen nails and found some lumber. I pounded the nails in the wood, pulled them out and drove them in again. I hope this helps!