The giving space and time thing seemed to have backfired on me . It just gave her more time and opportunity for her to see him .I know that I must first let it expand before it will shrink but its expanding much more than i believed it would . She got a lawyer and says shes leaving to be with OM . I dont know what to do . My only card is she doesnt want the kids to know shes been cheating and shes moving in with OM . So im second guessing some of my DBing strategies . It looks like now i should have exposed way back 6 months ago then maybe this would be over , in giving time and space didnt work
Me 45 W 45 Son 16 Son 14 Married 23 together 27 W threatened sep several times W still at home A discovered Mar 17 2014 A ended DEC 2 ( skeptical )
