What to do when an EA involved?

[Hoju]

Thanks bdub i've tried to make sure our talks don't happen in the bed room. While there is less emotion on her end I do feel our talks have become more cold and direct.

More and more people are starting to find out and the more that do the more support i've been getting. I know it's dangerous to seek support from friends and family as they will always tell you what you want to hear. However all this new support has started to turn my love into anger towards her. How could someone be so self centred? How could someone be so cruel? How could the same person who marriage was so important to, spit in its face after only 2 short years?

I want to save my marriage and i do love my wife but all this anger and hurt building up inside has become increasingly difficult to deal with. Anyone have advice on how to stop/control these feelings?