Who would have thought drinking would be a good 180? Kidding. Congratulations on not going off You gave him a chance to talk, you listened and now you KNOW he's not interested in OW because he had a chance to finish without being jumped on. That is an awesome interaction, mdu. I hope you feel good about what you've achieved by remaining calm. You're all over this!
Me: 31, W: 29 T: 4 M: 2 Kids: 3 (SS: 7, SD: 4, D: 3) Separated, still living together: Nov 2013 Separate bedrooms: Feb 2014 W working away; kids with me: Nov 2014