Thanks Wonka, you wrote exactly how it is. It is great to start and carve a new life, making changes to me and my house along the way. It is wonderful, really wonderful. There are moments that I miss the marriage, the routine, the family unit. I really expected it would decrease, especially with the new partner, but it hasn't. I am still struggling with the sons, it just doesn't seem like that have any interest in their father.
**** Laurie if you are reading, is it good to use my last call to discuss issues around my sons???????
What is certainly great, is the ability to recognise so much difference in my old self and how I acted with the W, to the new me and how I act with the new partner. I love it.
ME:51 W:46 M:25 S:22, S:20 Divorced 16/9/15 BD 10/12 W left 12/12 with OW, affair confirmed Nov/12. Dark since 6/13 I"m in a new relationship since Feb 14.
