I want to remind you that GUBU is ornery because he DOES see the contrast and wants to pull you down to his level because he is so damned miserable. Again, try not to let his moods affect you.
Job is correct ^^. I lived that myself. I was curious as hell whenever Ms. Wonka went out and did her thing. Damned if I ever gave her a whiff of my attention lest she thought I cared about her. sigh
Remember MCLer's innards are one massive mess like a broken C-3PO on the assembly line waiting to be fixed, shined and buffed at the Skywalker Junkyard.