Dealing with WAW part 5

[pilot]

I look at my freinds that are in good m and think if my w and I can get thru this and somehow reconnect it would be alot better then our 1st m together

A very very meaningful statement right there.

Try not to figure out why your W did what she did regarding job and kids. She obviously had a plan from the beginning. But odds are you will never really guess what it was, and if you actually found out, you would probably be surprised and not have thought of it on your own.