It just occurred to me, if you put the pieces together from over the summer, it is very likely my W thinks I am already moving on to another W. There was the Bday party invite, the time in the car when S5 said to her on facetime we were going to meet her, the bday party of hers I went to a few weeks ago, and the 'fake' bit at lunch with my W a week ago.

Not trying to mind read and say she HAS made this assumption, just saying that looking back, if you put those pieces together, it is not hard to come to that conclusion.


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16