Wifes severe depression, MLC, and suicide attempt

[AJM]

I am going to have to figure out if I need to set a boundary on this. I don't like not being able to plan a little bit. I feel she is trying to control it a little bit by not telling me.

Ya think? And what exactly would you do to enforce your boundary at this point before the legal Olympics are completed? Just curious...

I don't think there is any stopping the divorce at this point unless wife get a sudden epiphany.

Are you saying you'd take her back? Or that you'd postpone to wait and see? Trying to get a feel for where you are in all of this.

I don't believe there is any fixing it till after and a cooling off period for her to see life without the benefits of being married.

What does "fixing it" mean exactly? Can you paint that picture for me? 'Cause I'm not sure you and I see the same things.

I can appreciate the hope, LT. I can. It's hard to watch you one step behind her in this but I get the feeling you'll catch up quickly.

To be honest, sometimes you have to lose it all to know what you had, no? Seems you may be what she'll miss, but she really hasn't had a chance to do that yet from the sounds of it.

You have older daughters. You know as well as anyone that your daughter, at 14 will be fine in the house. She isn't old enough to be alone overnight from the sound of it, but otherwise, she'll be fine. And if you are out of town or whatever?? Daughter can call her mom and get a ride back. Or her older siblings. Be careful what you focus on - there's a test later

AJ