The WAH is in a deep fog. Who knows what the dingbat (his new name) is thinking. He has been texting me a bit, sending me pictures of things he is buying for his new house and offering to help me move this month. I'm just keeping up my mellow replying, not very excited or interested in him.
Going away again this weekend and I'm thinking that might make him react again. I think it bothered him last time I went out of town. Will also give me a chance to NC a little.
I believe he will stay in the fog until OW really dumps his ass. Probably he still hopes she will eventually decide that indeed she does want a relationship with him and not just f buddies. Doubt that will happen. Sorry dingbat. Was thinking back on some things that he did and said in the past few months and now I see that a lot of it reflected what was going on with them. Likely when she told him she wasn't interested in a relationship was when he started contacting me again, some of the things he said and did are now clearly about her rejection. I wonder if he had been considering reuniting with me at that time, when he realized she wasn't going to be his new GF. But I was afraid and didn't want to see him, and put him off for 2 weeks. Probably a good thing as if we did reunite it wouldn't have lasted. He is still in the fog.
He wanted to come by the house again today to pick up something else he forgot. Dingbat! But I wasn't home so he didn't come by. Says he will come tomorrow. I will strive to be out again. He has the keys but seems to prefer to use his visits as an excuse to see me. Or something... who knows.
Today, detached. There are other fish in the sea. However, tomorrow is a new day on the rollercoaster!
