Dealing with WAW part 5

[pilot]

Hey pilot, how was the beach?

Interesting about WAW seemingly not wanting you to see her place. I kind of act like this with my H so maybe she is just feeling angry or something and wants to mess with you. Or maybe her house is not clean and she doesn't want you to see that. Who knows.

I find the advice from ItHurts to be very interesting. The whole thing with this DB, at least for some of us, is acting as if we have moved on, don't care and are cool with the D situation. In my opinion, at least for some of us, this is the best way to behave. If we stay cool and unbothered it may make the WAS wonder why and maybe second guess their own decision. However, sometimes we may push that "I don't care" too far - in my case maybe my kissing adventure and in your case planting the seed of another woman. But if so we can only test the waters and then try something different right?

Keep on keeping on as they say. Try something different. Maybe NC for a minute?

Hope the beach was fun!
Hugs, Lisa

Hey Lisa. My take on it was she probably bought a bunch of new stuff (I know she bought a new tv even though all of our tvs are right here and she could have had any one of them) and new bedroom stuff. I figured she did not want me to see how much money she had spent because in a few days she is going to want some from me.

ItHurts did offer some interesting advice, and I will address it in the next post. True, we may push the I dont care angle too much. Maybe I did just that. I just felt nothing was really happening prior, and given now that she has her new place, and getting all set up for a new life without me, more of the same was not going to yield any different results.

The beach was tons of fun. Was really nice to get the kiddos back. We had a long fun day!!!