I think that's what I have been doing. I told myself, and everyone else who would listen, it was all about personal development and any reconciliation would be a bonus, but three months down the line I'm back to square one and I have to start again ... properly.
M: 57 / EW: 52 T: 21, M: 8 S: 18, S: 15 Bomb: 1 Jun 14 EA Aug 2014 I think PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner