I know you are trying, but what is up with all this housework? Doing her laundry, cooking, cleaning, shopping and on and on and on... She wants pizza and you go out and buy things to MAKE pizza? What's up with that? Maybe she just wanted to order pizza. Why didn't you just say to her.. "good idea, I'll order, what do you want on it?".... Way too much bowing at her feet. Cleaning the cupboards to make it easier on her? What has caused you to think this way? Women don't respect a man when he is doing things just to win her and that is exactly how it is coming across. I doubt she really wants you to be Mr. Mom here. (hence the comment about doing her own laundry) I think you need to temper this down a bit...
It seems to me that you are coming across as doing all of this to please HER. It sounds like you have some role reversal going on here. You are doing mostly things that are usually feminine traits. What about the masculine type traits? What masculine things are you doing?
I believe you are going way overboard on the housework. It looks as if it is all for her to see what a great guy you are. I think you need to put some focus on some masculine type activities or hobbies for yourself.
