Wife Declares She is a Lesbian

[essjay]

Weekend Update.

Thank you so much for replies so far. I do understand that if she is she is and there's nothing i can do about it. I'm changing what i can, me.

W is away at work for a few days now.
Being on my own with our girls is much better for me. I had a day to myself playing golf and went to a bar with a male friend.GAL.
The next day i spent working on the house, cutting the grass and cleaning etc., keeping my mind ocupied. Had a nice dinner with girls, and conversation with eldest daughter again. She thinks her Mum is definitely having a MLC.
MIL phoned me sunday and we had a good conversation. She got emotional talking to me, i did as well. We're both trying to support each other - she's as stunned as anyone!
She said i should insist that she moves out, W won't like it on her own she thinks..
In house seperation isn't working for me. We still sleep (try to) in the same bed, but i wake up often when she starts checking/using the phone at all hours. I'd had enough one night and blew it by saying that she's obsessed by that website and that she should take a look at herself sometime.
Giving somebody space and time is not easy when you're in the same house.
Part of me wants her leave and yet of course part of me doesn't.
Eldest D caught me looking at apartments online and said why are
you doing that? If anyone leaves it should be her...

By the way no contact at all from W while she's been away as yet, she used to text me every day, i guess others are getting that attention now.
Painful!, one day at a time etc.
I stopped texting her a while ago unless it's about girls.