I'm am doing the flip the script on those letters, they were always here, it's not going to be raised at the mediation for settlement. That is money not r! That line of flip the script has helped me to let go of the whole thought they were new. I cannot be sure!
I am also thinking if h raises any r issues, then I will be using the line, things are not that simple any more. If he places pressure for answers then I will be saying I will hear you out but I need time to digest and consider my answers. Or if he pushes the rec barrow he will be asked to formulate that plan. I am not expecting much, he couldn't even say hello weeks ago in person. He did however wave when I passed him on the road yesterday. He got the " I don't see you wave! Aka none or not even acknowledgement!"
I want to get him to also agree to leave my son alone. He was sleep walking etc. throwing up and very very stressed. He saw h yesterday in town, he was stressed last night and he had a verbal spew at me! So in a way I need to broach some r issues as h assulted son last year.
I think a nc for my son would be nice. Help him heal and acknowledge its not going to change. H has had 9months to consider his position and given the news he was dating openly late last year I think the ship has sunk.
Last edited by Ggrass; 09/01/1412:43 PM.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
