The Solo Partner is hard to find, but not out of print. I recently (a month maybe), got it from Amazon.
I've only read chapter 8-end. What an eye opener! Cadet posted the important stuff from the readings.
I do like that there is a workbook to help you realize what you are doing and how you can better respond to your distancer (or in our case not respond). It's a book for us to learn to change OUR behaviors.
Last edited by Atsbaby; 09/01/1412:44 PM.
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile