Settlement will be signed soon. Need advice.

[NewB3]

I get the same question everyday on the weekend. "Do you have plans today?" My answer is usually no, because I come up with things on a whim. So, it hit me last night. Although I make plans during the week to GAL, it is when they are in bed or after dinner, and yes even after work leaving her with everything to do. I thnk I need to GAL on the weekend more. I usually do something the past few months, but it is with the S3.5 and/orS10. I think leaving her with them might be better. One of her complaints back after BD was she never had time to go do things she wanted on the weekend, or time to just be home and read or have any kind of life. I went into 180 mode on that, however, the last few months I let her come and go. She always asks if it is okay if she goes. I find the asking weird. She is also whishy washy about going. "Can I go now or do you want me to wait until...?"
Again, as of late, I make no plans. I am just worn down. Although I do come up with things at the drop of a hat and just go.

Am I messing something up? Does anyone know why she is asking and doing these things?