Pilot, sorry to hear that you are going through a tough time at the moment. You're a beacon of strength on these forums (I've been following along but not chiming in). I do think you should be careful with the LF though, else those 3 options you outlined earlier may become just 1.
H 37 Me 36 Together 15 years Married 5 years No kids BD Apr 2014 H moved out 2 Jun 2014