Great job on the boundary setting. It sounds like W was receptive. I know you're aware, but take it slow. And I agree with Nitty, W will probably pull back but then come forward again. Just remember to give her space and not pursue.
Enjoy the zoo
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile