Igit newbie needs help part 3

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Pilot, let's hope your wife see's that affect on kids as well. I know my wife was pushing for an apt.early on in this fiasco. She was seeing a counselor who thought it was a good idea. I asked wife what the counceling suggested on telling 12d and twin 6 boys. Her answer was her councelor said she didn't have experience in kids. I said well I didn't think it was a good idea. In hindsight maybe I should have let her get the apt. I know it was because of A. Pilot your sitch isn't as bad as it seems from an outsiders view. She will get a taste of independence and how hard the big bad world is. What happens when kids get sick and she has to go to work. Life will get in the way. My w gets a job she leaves at 6am for then serves me. I am thinking wtf are you thinking. She asked me before she takes job if I could commit to getting kids up and to school. Gd old me said yes. I am feeling like a whipped dog.oh well today was ok had dinner then we took kids to pool. Her and I have a real estate deal meeting tomorrow we have been working on. So we see.