The other thing to add...I have taken off my ring. Not sure this was the right move, but right now I just don't feel like wearing it. My W wears her rings some days and then not others. She has not worn her rings in four days. Maybe I am being juvenile, but if she is not going to wear her rings, why should I?

Is this stupid and just going to exasperate the situation?

Me: 40, W: 40
M: 15, T: 18
D - 10, S - 7
D announcement 6/7/2014
A discovered 7/20/2014 (but denied by W)
Still living together and sharing same bed