raliced, yea, you are right. I know my W did not give the full story to this friend. It just really blew my mind at the reasoning. Thanks for posting and please chime in with advice at any time!

BigMac,

yea, I know their emotions are all over the place. and like I said I do not know why i am in a funk right now because really nothing new happened. Everything I was told was old news, even if some of it was new to me. nothing was a deal breaker out there. who knows when she comes out of the fog... just a frustrating, in a funk kinda day. thanks again for your support!


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16