W txt'd me today, telling me that S8 wanted me to see her new cat. Saying I could come over if I wasn't passive aggressive or argumentative.
So, when I stand up for my boundaries. When I remind her that she is a big girl, and responsible for her own decisions and don't just throw money at her she thinks I'm being argumentative.
I've spent an ungodly amount of money. I've put my career on hold, I've moved across the country just so the kids can have two parents.
Am I being passive aggressive by saying I need to think about an expenditure?
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015
