Kgirl - I AM a private counselor. I spent 17 years at a school. When I left, I found I could be kept pretty busy as an independent counselor, so I've kept my membership with the various national and state organizations, only as an independent. I like the flexibility and variety that I see with students from a broad range of schools!
We haven't had another discussion since that night. He works with OW, so NC is very unrealistic at this point. Oh, and he's addicted to her, so there's that. Honestly - their relationship is super secret. I know. He says that her H knows. Our D knows. But other than that - I think that their families and co-workers don't know. Is this relationship sustainable? Of COURSE it's not.
The company is up for sale, so potentially the working situation could change in the nearish future.
Otherwise, I'm back to ignoring the situation. I'm trying to be detached, and GAL and act "as if."
