Hi Pilot- I'm new to commenting on your thread but I just Wanted to say I wouldn't give too much credence to what your wife told her friend. She's not being honest with herself, and is probably spinning story to her friend as well. After all the friend wouldn't have had so many questions if your wife had been completely honest and forthcoming with her. But I'm sure it's still a little disorienting to hear. Sorry for the short reply, I hate typing on the phone.
