I see a pattern here. She basically ran out of money, maxed out her cards, has kids in her life instead of just living a single care free life.
So, every time there is a casual interaction there is something she "needs". And I keep pushing back. I'm tired of the financial extortion. I'm tired of the escalation of control talk to "lawyer up".
So, i'm trying to nip that crap in the butt. I guess being a bit firmer with her that I have had to be when she was on her "summer vacation".
On the plus side, I feel really really really detached right now. I'm in a new town, meeting new friends, and really liking it.
Is it bad that life is better without her in it?
Me: 35 Her: 33 D : 16 S : 9 Together: 14 years Married: 12 She left 4/14/2014 Separated: 5/25/2014 OM Confirmed 7/2014 She filed 8/7/2014 I Filed 10/21/2014 Divorce final 2/12/2015
