Later, he and I talked again. He cried, saying that he would dump OW for D15, but not for me. D15 deserves to believe that her dad is faithful to her mom. He wasn't going to dump OW for me though - it was only for D15. He told me that for years he had felt suffocated. That he had hoped I would die in a car crash. He doesn't feel suffocated anymore.
There was some pretty big stuff in that long post, including that you were not going to be OK with OW but that he wasn't going to dump her... I couldn't tell if there was an outcome from any of that. Is he going NC with her or no? Or yet to be determined?
Also stopping by because I saw you are a college counselor, and I work in student services as well and saw that you were meeting with someone on a weekend (providing it was a weekend where you are)... are you a private consultant of some sort? That is true dedication! My students have a hard time remembering that I'm not available 24/7 and especially on weekends to help them so they need some gentle "reminders" sometimes
Me:30 H:29, no kids T:12, M:4 (when D was final) 12/13: "Don't think I want to be M anymore" 6/14: Separated (I move) 1/15: H filed for D 5/15: D final
