Thank you all for your feedback. Feel free to share more. Otherwise I'll be drafting a reply and posting it for review. So far the highlights:
-validate the feelings she did share -answer that I'm not in a committed relationship -keep it to one paragraph -offer to listen if there's anything she'd like to share
Again, thank you!
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15