How to Proceed

[getrite]

So, she convinced me to go to Ocean City with her yesterday. Basically, she said she wanted us to get away from all of the craziness that is going on here and also for us to go get our daughters together to do a family thing. I agreed, under one condition. I told her that there will be no texting OM for her and I will also not text any OW. She agreed.

We were not there for more than a few hours and she was sitting on the balcony. We were staying at the condo my dad rented. I walked out and I saw she was texting someone, and the smile and look on her face told me who it was. I asked her to not do it in front of me. She said she was not texting OM. I knew different, so I texted her that I am not stupid, and to at least show enough respect for me to not do it. Well, a few minutes later, she told me I was right and she was texting him. She said she was sorry, that she made a mistake. Well, I am a little upset at this point, not that she was texting him, but that she wanted to go and get away from that stuff as a family, but she was sitting there doing it. She was very apologetic, but the apology did not mean anything to me. We took the kids to dinner. I was to upset to eat, so I did not.

Later that night she wanted to go get dinner and drinks, so we did. We talked, she said some hurtful things. I took off my wedding ring, I have been wearing it up until this point, I gave it to her and told her, if she ever wanted to do this again, she can put it back on my finger. I paid the tab and we left.

There was no way around sharing a bed with her. We were laying there and she says that she loves me and she just needs time to figure it out. Today, nothing but loving remarks, she loves me and all that stuff. She even kissed me last night and today, I did not initiate.

I feel better, giving her my ring felt good. I do not know why, but I just feel better right now.