Lifes Twists, when I read your posts I see someone who is doing a great job with his kids. Keeping the house nice, too, that is so important. Taking care of yourself, too.

I read your descriptions of interactions with your W and it is so helpful to see how others handle it so thank you for sharing them.

I am struggling. I want to "change myself" like your signature line. I want to let go of worry and show the world I am not a scared little mouse but a confident person who can face ups and downs with grace. If I mess up today I will try again tomorrow. I will keep getting up. That's what you are doing. I will be like this, too.

M:54, H:55
T:33, M:27
12/13 BD: EA
01/14 BD: PA, H leaves
03/14 H & OW break up
05/14 H says he will file for D
08/14 H initiates D
09/14 H wants to R
12/14 Still bungling our way through R