Hi all! Thank you so much for your encouragement and words of wisdom!

It is great to hear from you cq1! How are you doing?

Thank you to vossy and claire for that insight about the cell phone usage. He is an introvert, so that does make sense. It is just super irritating to be talking to someone who is always checking their phone and texting. Maybe that is his way of saying "you are not important" or maybe it is that he feels uncomfortable and doesn't know what to say so he looks at his phone.

Pilot, I completely agree with you. I didn't mean to sound like we would be reuniting tomorrow. I more meant that I feel he is having second thoughts or feelings for me which could lead to him trying to reunite. But we are nowhere near that point. Indeed he has done 0 work on himself, in fact has become worse than he was to begin with. And it would be very difficult for me to trust and love him again. Thank you for the insight and tips! Always the best!

Indeed the game has already changed yet again. We met for a coffee today and it turns out WAH is now angry with me. One of the guys I met at the party was drunkenly dancing with me later in the evening. And of course then he tried to kiss me, several times. I didn't resist very much but I walked away afterward. I did not think anyone saw it since it was in a dark crowded room but apparently WAH did. He told me it wasn't nice of me to kiss someone in front of him, and that we need to set rules for when we are around each other. I could have defended myself, explained, told him it's the pot calling the kettle black... but I didn't. I simply said I understand and am sorry he was upset.

In a way I do feel badly about it. Of course I would not like it at all if he did it.
But if he wondered if I was moving on, now he knows. That could be good news.

On the other hand he is very aggressively dating. I think he has 2 or 3 dates per week, including the OW. How stupid is that for a guy who said he wanted to break up because he wanted to be alone and find his independence. He is sickeningly lonely and looking for comfort. I don't get this whole adventure. Why dump me only to look for a crappier replacement me?

In addition to all the above, WAH is now posting photos on facebook of the party and tagging me as a fellow guest. I guess he wants to show the world that he is popular, but why include me? Maybe to throw it in the face of OW. Who knows.

Well, the adventure continues! Never a dull moment around here.
Hugs to all, LisaB