Yes, LITB your comments do help. I am focusing on me and my kids. I know we would get along just fine (except financially) without him. I feel I have changed in the past several months.
But I had decided that I would continue reaching out to my H to assure him that I am not giving up hope, not giving up on him, not giving up on us and our family. At first I did feel as though I was walking on eggshells, but once I made the conscious decision to ignore the A and work on reconnecting.
Last week he said that he's trying to figure things out... I don't really know what that means and I don't want to get my hopes up- so I just didn't say anything back to him.
