I get a call from Clark 10 minutes later. He's not yelling but asks in the future to let him know if the kids won't be with me. Um no...this is my time (I don't say this, just thinking). I apologized and said I'd remind them to call next time...even though he is calling at 9:15. Turns out both kids were sound asleep. I thought mom had just put them to bed. I'm sorry, but not. If you were here with your family, then you could have seen what they did all day long, just saying.
We hang up and I continue my meal with brother and sil. I get a text asking if we have a specific channel. Don't know. I'll check when I get home shortly. Clark then proceeds to text in away of snoop like behavior.
"Are you on ur way there?" "You don't have to cut your night short for that" "Don't know what you are doing, so don't worry about it" "Sorry, should have said, don't want to interrupt what your doing"
I respond about 10 minutes later...I'm headed home. No big deal. We left the restaurant, because my brother began not feeling well...diabetic and his sugar was going crazy prior to us eating.
"Early night, I figured you would have stayed out later since you don't have the kids"
How old do you think I am? It's 10 and I've been up all day being active. I'm not out drinking and parting like you are thinking...hello!?! Mother of two, married for now, staying out late on a Saturday?
So I get home and Clark is sitting in the driveway! WTH?
I get out of the car and he says he was getting ready to text me and joke that I'm still not home. I ask why he's here and he said that he wanted to see if we had this channel...Clark is a big Oregon fan and their first game was on at 10:45 (our time).
Me: why were you sitting in the driveway? H: I didn't want you feeling uncomfortable with me in the house.
Break through! I told him the other day I felt uncomfortable with him in the house without me here because of his snooping. He actually respected my wishes!
He checks his channel while I let the dog out. Did you do anything fun today? Yes.
Then he sees my legs...a bit cut up and bruised. So I tell him my adventure. He teases about me having rough sex...what is it about sex and men? I leave out the rest of my day...nonya. It was like old Clark back for a few minutes.
He leaves, but texted me shortly afterwards. "Sorry to hear about your accident I hope you feel better tomorrow" "It was nice chatting with you"
What the heck?
Atsbaby M:36 H:35 T: 19 M:12 S:11 D:9 BD: 5/4/14 Proof of OW 8/13/14-love note from her 8/19 admits OW 8/22/14 files D w/o telling me 9/20/14 Says he wants to reconcile