barely holding on - 3

[u-turn]

I'm sure waw will want it to seem like an equal decision.

I have told myself that I won't lie to the kids about anything. I will tell them that it is not what I wanted but we wanted different things. Her interests have changed and her interests no longer include me. She still loves you......

I try to talk to them about what they can see or have seen. At this point I do not try to add any information that would change their feelings for either of us. I do try to defend anything that is untrue that they have heard. Again without too much detail.