I have observed the same things in my STBXW. She acts like shes a young college kids again. And uust like Ms XH she plYs the victim in this ( "telling me...i lost my home and family...telling others she cant believe i actually moved on....") reality...you walked away from you home and family. You pushed me away and then said you did not want to be married anymore. You chose this life.

GB i am sorry for you pain at this. I can see that my children are beginnig to healt. I have made a conscious choice to lead them out of this place. Tbey seem to be responding to that.

me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14