Secondt, I'm no expert, but it seems that the A is almost always bound to burn out relatively quickly. Work on you, he'll probably notice.

Card29...you may want to see what some vets think of your plan. Exposing the A does very little to make you look good. Really the exact opposite. Check w/ vets who've dealt w/ As before.

Me: 34 W:33
T: 10 M: 6
S: 6 D: 5
BD: 5/14
Still together(ish)
Not giving up: 7/14
D talk has slowed, a lot.
Gradually working on things together. Still separate bedrooms.
Slow and Steady wins the race.