Casey, just my opinion but I might step back and think twice about ultimatum with wife. Also other w at this point although she might be a good catch for you, you haven't finished business with wife. I know I haven't been myself since this mess started. I want to be my best when thinking about what I have to offer another Woman and rt now although I am lonely I know anything I got into would be unfair to other person. You do have a S with w and be the better person and act like that person and you will shine. I been living in dead marraige for last yr and it stinks. I am slowly starting to realize I will be fine without her as my w. I don't look at her as my w rt now. I don't like who she is towards me. A new Woman with your 7 yr old might not be best for now. Just my 2cents
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