It wouldn't actually be a rush into allowing another woman to move in with me because she is on the other side of the world and the soonest she would be here would be December.

That being said, once I extend the invitation it will start a sequence of events in motion that will close the door to reconciliation for good.

I guess that a little bit of wisdom from the Matrix would apply here. In my mind I have already made the choice and now I am here to understand why I made it.

Me37, W30, S7
Married 10yrs 05/11/04
ILYBINILWY 22/09/13
Disc. OM1 26/09/13
Disc. STD from OM2 03/02/14
Affair Confession 21/06/14

W and I share same apartment (for a few more days).
W isn't pushing for D.