LITB,

So... I am beginning the work...

But I guess my biggest concern is that he is living with this woman. I feel as though I don't have much of a chance when he is with her constantly.

I am reading "Divorce Busting" and reading threads..... I know I have things that I will change--- what things did your wife do that made you take notice and took your attention away from your GF and give your attention to your wife?

H spends all weekend with her. Has yet to try and spend time with our kids.....

I called him today and asked if he would like to come over to dinner this week- making one of his favorites- so that he could spend time with the kids.... he did accept- so we'll see....