You are right there isn't anything one can do to help the partner who checked out of the M. Something has happened in my situation that has made me question how much of this I want to put up with. I have been living in a dead M for a year now, and while I have patience it is not limitless, especially when you discover you have other options, and the pain I am experiencing can end anytime I choose to end it. There is an ultimate yield strength for everything and I am ounces away from mine.
Sorry for the thread hijack Pilot, no one seems to comment on my thread...
Me37, W30, S7 Married 10yrs 05/11/04 ILYBINILWY 22/09/13 Disc. OM1 26/09/13 Disc. STD from OM2 03/02/14 Affair Confession 21/06/14
W and I share same apartment (for a few more days). W isn't pushing for D.
