Dealing with WAW part 4

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Pilot, it's hard to hear things like that about your w. I know I hate the thought of my w out and about acting single. I look at her now like she is not my w. Trying to look at her like she is sick. Unhappiness is an inside job anyone will tell you that. We can't fix them, we can't do anything but be there for the kids while they go through this. Some WAW will process through there issues sooner then others. It is so hard to detach with kids. I just think the best approach is be there freind no matter what happens. If we can detach it will help us be more attractive to them. I really do believe that us LBS.are really not ourselves going through this process. Time will help. I was at her brothers cabin last night and today thinking how much fun it would be for me to have a women there with me water skiing , hanging out on boat, hot tubing at cabin. Rt. Now I am not sure that woman I want is my w in her current sickness. Hang in there you seem alot like me, happy go lucky, happy in general with life unfortunately our W don't have same dna.