Hi Nitty,

I can understand where you are coming from. It is extremely hard not to read too much into these positive interactions. People who are doing what we are doing are the glass half full kind of people rather than glass half empty. We see hope in everything rather than no hope. I had my first face to face and longest interaction with my wife last night since her attempted suicide in April. it was positive in many ways given the situation. I have to keep reminding myself that this is probably just a blip and things will go quiet again for a while. I am sure you are feeling the same things and want to rush and see more positives. I think we have to exert the greatest restraint to not put pressure on ourselves for change to happen. We need to take some small pleasure from when things and interactions are nice and keep moving forward for ourselves. We need to let them grow and maybe catch up with us when they are ready.


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