I was in the grocery store today when I ran into one of my W's old close friends. In fact she was the friend my W stayed with a month or so ago the night she and I went out and we had a great date which 'may/could' have turned physical. Anyways she just started talking...so I sat and listened. She was saying they talked that night about things. About the night she stayed out till 4 with a guy in his car (the story she sticks by). She never mentioned the OM. She did say my W was saying she would never date these guys because she is a mom with kids. What I got from that is these guys did not have enough income to support her. Her friend was saying how shocked and sad she was about our situation. She was saying how she would always tell my W about how mad she was at her H or how they were fighting, and my wife never said anything negative about me ever, or ever had any complaints about me or M. Her H was there listening, and afterwards, he told this friend I was talking to that he bets she was cheating on me. Hah. She said my W was acting so different (there were really close when I met W, roommates in fact and we did a lot of things as a group when I first started dating W) and could not figure out what was up with my W. Her H even said he would prefer she not have anything to do with my W. That was kinda strong IMO.
Anyways, that is that...
Me: 42 W: 32 Married 7 years together 8.5 S1: 7 S2:7 Bomb #1: 09-16-13 Recon #1: 11/13 A discovered 04-03-2014 W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me I filed D 12-02-2014 S 05-31-14 Divorced 5-19-16