Hi Georgia, just trying to get caught up on how things are going with you! You sound really good!
Did you get the situation with OW's F figured out? I agree with Julie up there (btw, hi Julie, how are you??) that you need to just be direct. Not demanding, necessarily, but very direct about the fact that it is not OK for the children to be around someone who is an accused molester.
I love that you have decided not to play the victim - I think that has been one of the biggest reasons I have been able to go from emotional rock bottom at BD to happy and moving on. Watching my XH play the victim has shown me an objective view of what that looks like, and it's pretty ugly. We do have to choose to march forward and choose to find happiness rather than stew in sadness.
It sounds like you and your H have agreed to everything financially and re: parenting time? That's great. I am sorry you have to sell your house. I have to do the same. I would not have chosen that route, but since the court has ordered it, I will make the best of it - I am sure that is what you are doing, too.
I should come over to the MLC board more often to see some of my old DB buddies! Not too many left on newcomers anymore.
me: 44 XH: 42 M 11 years D10 and S8 Bomb drop 9/27/13 D final 7/1/14
